[Chatting] Girlfriend who wants to break up after getting ready for marriage."One night with college motivation and mistake, guilt"

□ Broadcast date and time: October 4, 2024 (Fri)
□ Host: Attorney Jo In-seop

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◇ Lawyer Cho In-seop (hereinafter referred to as Cho In-seop): When you look at a person's life, life is a drama. I don't know how many characters are in the drama and what will happen, but the ending will be a happy ending. <Attorney Cho In-seop's Counseling Office> Today is Real Theater Day, where your story is turned into a drama.

◇ Jo In-seop: Lawhouse for you, Jodamso. Let's meet today's main characters first.


◆ Male: I met my girlfriend as a subject of a friend. My girlfriend was quite different from the girls I've met so far. I was late for 40 minutes at the first meeting. Plus, it's a dress with lace. I woke up too much.

◈ Wife in her late 20s: Is she out on a blind date? Right? Oh, my. Oh, my. I'm sorry I'm late.

◆ M: Oh, it's okay! I guess you finished your work late. It can happen when you work.

◈ No, it's not that. The cat...

◆ M: Yes? Goyang...? Oh, you went to your hometown?

◈ No. A wounded cat was in the rain. That's why I was late to take you to the animal hospital. I'm sorry.

◆ Man: It was only then that I found out that it was raining outside. The more I knew about my girlfriend, the more I had a new charm. I'm so feminine that I like clothes with lace, but I learned martial arts as a hobby. And I went to the abandoned dog shelter every weekend, and once I was hooked, I ate more than a month. There was nothing like me like mosquito bites, but I fell in love with her.

◈ YA: Here. It's a really hidden restaurant. Pork tripe. It tastes really lovely. Oh, the chewy texture. You don't know if one of us dies while eating.

◆ M: Oh, really? Then I don't know if it suddenly disappears today. Even if that happens... Enjoy it alone.

◈ YA: Oh, can I? I guess you have another schedule? Anyway, thank you for your consideration. As you said, I'll eat it all with responsibility.

◆ BK: Oh, I'm just kidding. I'm kidding! I'm still strong. Falling down is...

◈ Oh, you were joking. I'm sorry. I'm a bit serious. Hey, then, shall we order soju and beer? I'll curl your somaek with a fantastic ratio.
◆ Man: When I came to my senses, we became lovers. Interested in conservation, she constantly picked up trash on the street even on dates, protected abandoned pets, and really liked pork tripe. I fell in love with her so much.

◈ Yeo: Oppa, I'm sorry I'm late. You've waited a long time, haven't you? I was going to hurry up and come... I'm sorry.

◆ B: Why? Did you find small animals in need again today?

◈ YA: How did you know? There are kittens in the box that look like they're just born. I feel so sorry for you.

◆ Man: I see. You're really... the nicest person I know. You know, I have something for you today. I really want you to accept it.

◈ YA: What is this? Huh? It's a ring.

◆ Man: I proposed to my girlfriend by giving her a wedding ring. My girlfriend was surprised and took it. The preparations for the wedding are in place. Both families got to know each other and booked a wedding hall. I gave my girlfriend a luxury bag and clothes as a gift. Actually, it's been done before. Lace dress and eco bag. It wasn't my cup of tea.

◈ YA: Yes? What's with the bag? There's also the one you gave me last time.

◆ M: Yes, we were supposed to meet our friends and give them invitations. Take this with you. Don't carry an eco bag around every day. But... I'm suddenly curious. The bag and shoes I gave you... What did you do with them all? Why aren't you doing it?

◈ I sold it.

◆ M: What? You sold it? Why?

◈ Yeo: I have a lot of clothes, bags, and shoes. I sold the luxury bag my brother gave me and donated it to the abandoned dog shelter. It's okay, right?

◆ Man: I can't believe you sold it and donated it. . . It was so absurd, but I should blame myself for loving my good girlfriend. Still, I want the woman I'm going to marry to look kind of cool in front of my friends. I gave my girlfriend a luxurious bag and clothes again. By the way, on the day I was supposed to meet my friend, my girlfriend didn't show up at the meeting place. I also turned off my phone. The next morning, my girlfriend called me.

◈ YA: Oppa. . It's me. You've waited a long time, haven't you? Sorry.

◆ Man: What the hell happened. You should have told me in advance. Your phone's turned off. I was so worried. It wasn't a big deal, was it?

◈ I actually have something to tell you. Let's break up.

◆ Man: What do you mean? I booked a wedding hall, turned out invitations, and signed a honeymoon house! Did I upset you?

◈ No, I don't think I'm ready yet. I'm terribly sorry.

◆ M: Obviously. . . Something must have happened that I don't know. I asked my girlfriend to drink soju with pork tripe for the last time. That day, I drank and talked about it. And I heard a shocking story. On the day she booked the wedding... she met a close college colleague and spent the night complaining about a fast-paced marriage, and she has seen him several times since then. My girlfriend said she couldn't get married because she felt guilty. I'm so tired. The man who had a deep relationship with his girlfriend... I know him. I received a wedding invitation I gave and congratulated him. You said "hyung-hyung-hyung-hyung-hyung" in the front, but you hit the back of your head in the back! ! My heart is in tatters because of the betrayal. We can't break up like this. Is there anything I can do to my girlfriend and her colleagues from college? Lawyer! Help!


◇ Cho In-seop: "Jo In-seop's Counseling Office" Let's talk with the main character of today's story.

◆ M: Lawyer. I'm going to marry my girlfriend, but she's going to have that relationship with a college colleague. I'm so angry... I'd like to claim damages. Can I...

◇ Jo In-seop: Engagement is established if the adult has mutual agreement. However, even if you are engaged, you cannot force your marriage to follow that promise (Article 803 of the Civil Code). Even after you get engaged, you often see people around you break up your engagement, and sometimes you break up your marriage by agreeing with each other, but sometimes you break up your engagement by giving one party notice. Article 804 of our Civil Code stipulates eight reasons for terminating an engagement with the will of one party. 1. 2. When a sentence of suspension or higher is sentenced after the engagement, 2. When a person is judged to commence adult guardianship or limited guardianship after the engagement, 3. When there is an sexually transmitted disease, incurable psychosis, or other incurable illness (病疾), 4. When engaged or married to another person after the engagement, 5. In the case of adultery (姦淫) with another person after the engagement, 6. When life and death are unknown for more than a year after the engagement. 7. If you refuse to marry or delay the marriage without justifiable reasons, 8. There are other serious reasons. In the case of the client's question, it will be the case of the 5th engagement and having sex with someone else. In this case, you can break the engagement. And when the engagement is terminated, one party can claim damages from the other party who is negligent. At this time, not only property damage but also mental suffering, that is, alimony, is responsible. As a result, you can claim damages to your fiancé that led to the cancellation of your engagement, such as wedding reservations, honeymoon reservations, and down payments to your honeymoon home that were spent preparing for your wedding after your engagement. Therefore, in this case, the client may terminate the engagement regardless of the fiancé's intention, and may also claim property damages and alimony arising from the engagement.

◆ M : Can I only claim damages from my girlfriend? I'm good at being my girlfriend, and I'm sure she's been seduced. My girlfriend... she's so naive. I need to get something out of him!

◇ Jo In-seop: In the event of a break-up, you may claim damages from the other party who is negligent. If so, you may question whether you can claim damages only from your fiancé. In this case, it can be a question of whether you can hold not only your fiancé, but also your colleagues in college who had sex with him, accountable for the cancellation of your engagement. You can claim damages if the break-up has contributed to your fiancé as well as others. Even in this case, because the relationship between the client and the fiancé is directly related to the sex between the fiancé and the fiancé, the university's motives should also be held responsible for the disengagement. However, if a college colleague had sex with his fiancé after the engagement was lifted, it may be difficult to hold a college colleague liable for alimony. Additionally, if your fiance and his parents are unilaterally destroying the engagement while unprovoked, rather than having sex with someone else, as in this case, the issue could be whether you can claim damages from them as well as your fiance's parents. In this case, if your fiancé's parents actively participated in the breakup and led to it being unfairly broken, you can claim property and mental damages not only to your fiancé but also to your fiancé's parents.

◆ M: Attorney, I just got a text message. My credit card was stolen. I bought my girlfriend a luxury bag, shoes and clothes. What about that? They sold it out! I can't even get it back! What should I do?

◇ Jo In-seop: When you get engaged, you often give the other person money and valuables, such as gifts. In this case, you have the right to return the gifts you have already provided due to the restoration of the original state following the termination of the engagement. However, if the fiancé who provided the cause of the breakup has an engagement gift to the other party, the fiancé cannot claim the return of the engagement as the person responsible for the breakup. Even in the case of the client, if there is a gift provided during the engagement, you can get a return. However, if you have a gift that you exchanged in your relationship and you want it back because of the large size or amount of money provided by one party, it is difficult to get it back because the gifts you gave to win the other person's heart are gifts and the ownership is transferred to the other party.

◆ M: Of course. What about the reservation fee for the wedding hall and the down payment for the lease? We both paid half and half, but... the penalty will have to be paid by my girlfriend, right?

◇ Cho In-seop: Because the reservation fee for the wedding hall is property damage, you can get compensation from the other party. In the case of a down payment on a deposit basis, if the deposit is confiscated because the deposit itself is not established, it will be necessary to ask for a return as compensation for damages because property damage has occurred in the end.

◆ M : Oh, lawyer. Suddenly, water is falling out of my eyes. Can you give me some tissues? I can't stop crying... Is everyone like that? Will it be okay?

◇ Cho In-seop: The wound heals over time. You have to cheer up and deal with what happened.

◆ M: Yes, I'll do that.

◇ Cho In-seop: Yes, cheer up. a counseling center for lawyer Cho In-seop We've met today's storyteller. Lawyer Cho In-seop's counseling center... The counseling center is always with you. I'll say goodbye while I play the last song. This has been "Loyer Jo Inseop."